I Thought My New Boyfriend Was the Perfect Man. Then I Found Out What He Was Doing Before We Met.
A woman is concerned about her new boyfriend's limited sexual history, which she finds unusual for their age. Despite enjoying their relationship, she worries about his inexperience and how it may affect their future intimacy. She seeks advice on how to address her concerns without being judgmental.
- ▪The woman has been dating a man who she describes as perfect in many ways.
- ▪She is surprised to learn about his very limited sexual experience after almost a month of dating.
- ▪She is unsure how to approach the topic without making him feel judged.
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How to Do It I Thought My New Boyfriend Was the Perfect Man. Then I Found Out What He Was Doing Before He Met Me. I’m … not into that. Advice by Rich Juzwiak May 30, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by AaronAmat/Getty Images Plus. Copy Link Share Share Comment Copy Link Share Share Comment How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I started seeing this guy, who has been great on every date we’ve been on. It’s been a bit of a slow burn and I’ve loved the refreshing change of pace of getting to really know each other before having sex. The problem is because we’ve waited to have sex we’re now almost a month into dating and I’m just now learning about his sex history.
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