I'm happy that my younger sister is married, owns a home, and has a second child on the way — but I'm also jealous. I'm learning to be OK with that.
The author reflects on feelings of jealousy towards her sister, who is married and expecting a second child. Despite her happiness for her sister, she struggles with societal comparisons regarding her own single life. By acknowledging her mixed emotions, she aims to embrace her unique journey and appreciate her current lifestyle.
- ▪The author is a single 30-something living in Vancouver and enjoys her freelance lifestyle.
- ▪She feels both happy for her sister and jealous of her life milestones.
- ▪The author recognizes the impact of societal expectations on her feelings of inadequacy.
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I'm a single 30-something renting in a community house in central Vancouver, where I can enjoy everything the city offers. I work a flexible freelance schedule, and fill my time with friends, new hobbies, and traveling.In so many ways, I truly love my life. I know I'm lucky.But I'm also ready to find a partner and start building a life together. This dream sometimes feels far away, especially when I start comparing myself to other people, like my sister, who is married, has recently bought a house, and is pregnant with her second child. She's one of my best friends, and I am genuinely thrilled for her. But I still feel jealous at times.I struggle with comparison sometimesMy sister and I have always been close and see each other weekly.
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