I Just Saw the Messages My Husband Has Been Secretly Sending to My Sister. They’re Vile.
A woman discovered her husband has been sending explicit messages, including dick pics, to her sister for three months, prompting her to seek advice on how to confront him. The advice columnist expressed concern about potential abuse or a mental health crisis, urging caution and preparation for safety. The situation has caused significant distress for both the woman and her sister, who received up to five messages a day.
- ▪The husband has been sending explicit messages and dick pics to his sister-in-law for three months.
- ▪The sister reported receiving as many as five messages per day and felt overwhelmed.
- ▪The advice columnist recommended gathering important documents and consulting a divorce lawyer before confronting the husband.
- ▪There was concern about whether the messages were authentic or potentially fabricated using AI technology.
- ▪The columnist emphasized the need for a safety plan and suggested the behavior might indicate abuse or a mental health issue.
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How to Do It I Just Saw the Messages My Husband Has Been Secretly Sending My Sister. They’re Vile. At first, she thought she could ignore it. Advice by Jessica Stoya May 05, 202612:00 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Ridofranz/iStock/Getty Images Plus. Copy Link Share Share Comment Copy Link Share Share Comment How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I just learned from my sister that my husband has been sending her messages for months. Specifically, dick pics. When I asked her how long it had been going on, she said the past three months. She thought she could just ignore it, but he’s worked himself up to as many as five times a day, and she is completely fed up.
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