I Have a Quality in Bed that Many Men Long For. Now My Girlfriend Tells Me It’s Annoying!
A man writes to a sex advice column expressing concern that his ability to last long during sex is annoying his girlfriend. He believed this quality was desirable, but she has indicated that it can be too much at times. The advice given suggests communication and exploring different ways to connect during intimacy.
- ▪The man can last between half an hour to an hour during sex.
- ▪His girlfriend has expressed that she sometimes wants to finish sooner.
- ▪The advice suggests that he communicate with her about her preferences.
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How to Do It I Have a Quality in Bed that Many Men Long For. Now My Girlfriend Tells Me It’s Annoying! I had no idea. Advice by Rich Juzwiak June 03, 202612:09 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Volkan ISIK/Getty Images Plus. Copy Link Share Share Comment Copy Link Share Share Comment How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I used to think my quirk during sex was a good thing. But my girlfriend has recently burst that bubble. I tend to last really long during sex. I can actually go at it for a full half hour to an hour without many breaks at all. I thought this was a good thing, since men who last only a minute are commonly portrayed as the butt of a joke.
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